love at first sight.

Is there such a thing? I've always wondered. I definitely believe in lust at first sight but love? Nah, I need to get to know a person before I can actually love them. When I first met the boyfriend Mr. Military Man (I hate labels) he didn't phase me not one bit. We would talk on the phone all the time, he'd say the sweetest things, tell me that my face (he had a picture of me on his phone) was the last thing he saw before he went to sleep, and just everything a guy should say to make a chick swoon over them but I just wasn't falling for it. I mean, maybe its because of my past with men but I don't gush over guys. If I didn't talk to him or text him, I wasn't freaking out. He was just another guy to me. Yeah, Summer of `08  I was on my bullshxt and didn't take guys seriously. They were my 'hoes' and boy oh boy did I have a lot of them. Had dudes on deck...okay rambling. Anyway, he initially annoyed me but as time progressed I realized how much I loved him.

I think love at first sight is a crock of shit. There can definitely be a huge attraction between two people but not love. Everyone knows I go ape-shit for Trey and when I first saw him in this magazine (Blender mag, I believe. It was some ad he was in) I thought he was hot, did my research, heard him sing, but didn't fall in love until I saw a few interviews and heard his debut album.

Holy shit....I had a lot of stuff to say about love at first sight but after talking about dude and then going on about Trey, I kinda forgot where I was going with this. Ummm...yeah.

The gist of this post: love at first sight is about as real as the tooth fairy to me. Sorry kiddies but mama's a non-believer.